I don’t know if this happens to anyone else, but sometimes it feels like our days are intense. Not intensely bad or good, necessarily. But we eat our breakfast intensely, clean up furiously, then play vigorously. Emotions are only felt in the extreme. We giggle instead of laugh, sob instead of fuss, scream instead of yell. Some days this doesn’t just go for the kids, but me too. My theory today is that it’s because of the weather. The mornings lately are cold and gray and dull – so everything else is vibrant and INTENSE to compensate. That goes for the editing of these pictures from our afternoon at the park this week, too. Whatever the reason, sometimes being a mom just calls for a little intensity. Today I’m intensely grateful!
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January27th
Motherhood is Intense
Posted in: Slice of Life
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January14th
Siblings at the Park
Posted in: HouseWifery, My Kitchen, Our Traditions, Slice of Life
I’m in a bit of a reminiscent mood this morning, hence the photo editing above. Bear with me…
My brother Jacob and I are the same age apart as Kade & Berlin, except that in my case, I was the older one. I like to imagine that I was as nice to him as Kade is to Berlin, but in reality…there are stories. Like me feeding him pennies when he was an infant or coaxing him to touch the oranges that Mom had forbidden us to touch or Dad coming downstairs to find Jacob crying, with a red hand print across his face.
Dad: “Did you hit your brother?”
Me: “Nope”
Lucky for Berlin, Kade is a very sweet older sibling (most of the time).
We went to the park this week to burn off a little energy. It was a gorgeous day and we had a great time!
Just want to give a little shout out to my cousin, Amanda. One afternoon about 20 years ago, she and I went to a thrift store and found the tiniest clothes we could. They were so small and so cute and she might have been a little baby crazy and pulled me into her craziness. (I blame her entirely!) But I ended up saving a pair of shoes and a little plaid vest and this jumper for 20 years so that one day my baby girl could wear them. But of course, I lost them and forgot about them. After Christmas, we cleaned out the garage and guess what I found buried in a plastic storage tub! Only problem, my baby girl wasn’t a baby anymore and this little jumper was the only thing that fit. I couldn’t help but think how things have turned out just like I imagined 20 years ago. Am I lucky, or what?!
On to the playground…below he is ignoring me and she is blowing me kisses. Together it’s a good balance.
Priceless!
Hope everyone is having a good weekend. Tonight is our first “Family Night”, Kade is making dinner and we’ll all play a game or two. Then tomorrow night we hope to have installment #2 of “Foodies in Training”. I’ll try to keep this updated.
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September27th
Summer Ends
Posted in: Slice of Life
Sometimes life just gets busy…I know you know what I mean. It happens to everybody. When you decide to pick up one thing, something else usually has to be put down for a bit. I love this blog because it gives me a creative outlet, but in those times when I have to set it down, it just waits for me.
This afternoon, I wanted to pick it up again, even though it will probably be just for a little bit…I can’t believe we are officially in FALL. As this is supposedly our semi-scrapbook, here’s the end of our summer in pictures.
Daddy and his girl.
A boy and his trains.
Giggles.
Lazy summer evenings.
Splish-splash!
A few bike trailer rides.
More fun with Dad’s amazing activity table – we love that thing!
Scooting at a million miles an hour – QUICK! make sure that bathroom door is closed!!
Beautiful smiles!
An amazing dad (and jungle gym).
Giddy-up!
Adorable monkeys.
Energy…lots of energy!
More trains.
Calling all her friends to tell them she’s graduated to the “big” stroller seat.
Big brothers and little sisters – doesn’t get much better than this.
Violins made from dowel rods.
Sweet dreams.
Bubble baths.
Her sign for “crackers”.
Hugs for baby.
Bring on the FALL, we’re ready for it!
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June1st
Busy Days…
Posted in: Slice of Life
June 1st?! Are you serious? What have our days been filled with that I couldn’t get around to making a couple posts? Well, I’ll tell you. First there was Mother’s Day…which was wonderful! It included naps, shopping, and dad babysitting. What more could you ask for?
Then, of course, there’s the sandbox…
And at least one of us is developing amazing stomach muscles while doing sit-ups and crunches in the bouncy seat…
I discovered that my daughter (who has feet too small to even wear shoes) has more shoes than I do, thanks to generous friends with girls!
Now that I’m finished with breastfeeding, I’ve started a diet which means a lot more trips to the grocery store for fresh fruits and veggies. Luckily Costco builds carts for TWO! (He was only slightly attacking her with tickles…I’ve never seen a girl more patient with being pestered.)
Sometimes Kyle and I act more like a 62 year old couple than a 32 year old couple. One weekend we even went to an RV Show, just to take a look around and see if there was anything we couldn’t live without. And we’ve also been on more than a few fishing trips this month, but thankfully never had to leave the living room.
We had to laugh at how this fishing game perfectly exemplified how differently Kyle and I work. Kade wanted a “new” game one afternoon so I told him we’d go fishing. He was thrilled at the idea and of course, had no patience and wanted to play right then and there. So I grabbed some construction paper and gave some to Kyle and we both went to work cutting out fish. My fish were completely boring: I had about 7 fat fish and 7 skinny fish. The end. But they were ready to be played with in less than 5 minutes. Kyle disappeared into the office for over half an hour, leaving me to wonder if he had forgotten about the whole thing altogether. But then he emerged with perfectly detailed sharks, seahorses, whales, swordfish and lobsters (or “mobsters” as Kade calls them). I always give him a bad time about having a disease that forces him “slightly upgrade” everything…but in the end it always benefits everyone. So even though it sometimes takes AGES to complete, I really can’t complain.
Kade’s been reading a few books about being a big brother and loves helping with Berlin even more now. She was so excited that he was there that not much eating took place. We’ll keep practicing since I love the help!
Our flowers and plants in the backyard are doing great. Kade is still waiting for the zucchini bread to start growing, but luckily the plants have managed to survive the snails, our arch enemy.
I grew up in Colorado, which is usually very very dry. So I’m pretty sure I was about 25 before I’d ever even seen a snail in real life before. Not so for Kade, he discovered these guys on a plant in the backyard.
Unfortunately, that’s not all he discovered. He also came across a giant rusty stake which works brilliantly as a hobo pole or as a weapon to ward off attacks from various imaginary assailants.
Berlin is becoming more and more tolerant of playing on her stomach but is still not a huge fan.
Sometimes it just all becomes too much and she can’t hold that head up for even one more second…some days I know exactly how she feels.
We’ve also taken a few trips to the park. Kade is SO outgoing and friendly, it’s really cute to watch. He’ll tell just about anyone (kids in the park, people walking by on the sidewalk, checkout clerks at the grocery store), “Hi, I’m Kade. K-A-D-E. That spells Kade. You want to be my friend?” This little boy came to the park with two trucks and after Kade befriended him, was generous enough to share and the two of them drove (with motors revved!) all over the park, mostly up and down the slides…No, that’s not dangerous!
Berlin, is a little more quiet, at least for the time being. And is content to chill in the stroller while Kade runs around like a madman.
I’m not sure if any of you have read Sandra Boynton’s book Blue Hat, Green Hat but in it is a turkey that always gets dressed the wrong way. It’s one of Kade’s favorites and sometimes the only way to really experience a book is to act it out.
This little girl is made of solid muscle! A lot of times holding a baby can feel like holding a soft pillow, not with this one. She LOVES standing, jumping, dancing with those almost chubby legs and every time she does she flexes her arms and torso. I can claim a few of her traits came from me: eyes – check, dark hair – check, metabolism and muscle tone…definitely not!
I love how mischievous he looks in this picture, when in reality he was being an angel and wrote out the entire alphabet. Not bad for a two year old, eh? At Christmas time, I got him this dry erase activity book for the plane, and he thoroughly enjoys tracing the letters and numbers in it, but just in the last few weeks he’s started to write out the alphabet with no reference point whatsoever. Since I’ve never actually “taught” him though, he draws each of them from bottom to top and right to left.
We also just closed on the refi of our condo down in LA. Kyle and I were lucky enough to buy it at the very pinnacle of the housing market and although we still value it, it’s value has dropped considerably. So it was time to try to lower that monthly payment as much as possible. I can’t tell you how glad I am that that process is over – so much paperwork, so many phone calls, so much time – but, it’s done. Crossed off the list! Hallelujah!!
So that’s what we’ve been up to lately. I’ve been putting together some homeschool projects for Kade and purchased a few more decorating projects from the thrift store, but those will get their own updates later on. Meanwhile, I hope you get to end this day with a snuggle from someone you love.




























































































