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  • August31st

    I realized yesterday that for the past few months, my motivation for taking pictures had been either guilt or urgency.  I would all of a sudden remember that I hadn’t taken photos in a while and feel obligated OR I knew that this particular moment was quickly passing by and I felt a sense of urgency to document it before it slipped into the past.  Neither gave me a chance to actually enjoy photography or experiment and practice.  So yesterday afternoon, I decided to take Kade to the park for a mini photo shoot.

    Now, to be completely honest, this shoot was also motivated by a little guilt and urgency.  When we found out Fritz was coming, we announced it to the grandparents by having Kade wear this shirt telling the world he was going to be a big brother.  I didn’t want child #2 thinking that I hadn’t put the same effort into her baby book as for child #1, so I wanted to get a picture of Kade in the shirt.  That was the guilt part.  The urgency was that Kade was quickly growing out of the shirt!  So with three motivations we headed to the park and found a grassy spot where Kade could run barefoot.

    We bought a DSLR camera shortly after Kade was born, a Canon 40D.  For a looong time, Kyle was the only one who used it.  I was way too intimidated.  But I took an online photography class this last winter which really made me feel more comfortable and taught me the basics of photography.  I am very much an amateur but with this incredible of a subject, I felt I would have a lot of fun practicing.  All these pictures were taken with our 50mm f/1.4 lens.

    Sometimes all the stars align and you get a great photo, but I did try to remember a few tips from class while we were out yesterday.

    1. Start with a happy subject – we went right after Kade’s afternoon nap and snack which meant he was fully rested with lots of energy.

    2. For lighting, it’s best to have the sun low in the sky.  Since early morning would not make any of us happy, late afternoon sun was our best option.

    3. Remember to change your angles.  I took some photos standing, some with me laying on the ground, some with him laying on the ground, some vertical, some horizontal, some close up, some far away.

    4. Use depth of field to your advantage.  This is one of the reasons I LOVE our lens.  The park had a lot of distractions in the background and I wanted the viewer to focus on Kade, not the fence behind him.

    5. Work with your subject.  Now for some scenarios, telling your subject to smile or hold their head this way or that would work great.  But for a 2 year old, let’s face it…that is completely unrealistic.  Besides, I’ve learned that telling Kade to smile results in a strangely contorted face with closed eyes.  I wanted to capture his personality, his energy, his natural expressions that I see every day – the flirty eyes, the mischievous smile, his imagination at work.  To do that I needed to let him just do what he does and be ready.

    6. And finally, what I think is the most important thing to remember, TAKE LOTS OF PHOTOS! I have no idea how many photos I took yesterday, but I’m going to guess that it was getting close to 200.  One thing the photography class made me realize was that even the pros take some bad photos.  Granted their percentage of good to bad is significantly  higher than mine, but if taking lots of photos is something they do, surely my odds of getting a great photo would improve if I followed their lead.  And with digitals there is really no reason not to (I just have to remind myself to delete the crappy ones).

    So, I think yesterday was a success.  We both had a great time giggling, wrestling, laying in the grass, drawing in the dirt and watching clouds float by and in between all that we captured about 20 great photos that I’ll treasure forever.  I hope you’re inspired to try your own photo shoot,  I know that after seeing the results of less than an hour’s investment, I want to keep up these amateur outings.  And seriously, there is some urgency involved.  After all, look how quickly he is growing up – he could be 12 in that last photo!!

  • August27th

    Guess whose couch is featured on Pink & Polka Dot this Friday??  Kristi’s site is full of slipcover inspiration and great DIY projects that will get you dreaming of your next trip to the Flea Market.  Take a minute to check it out!

  • August25th

    Now I am completely aware that we enjoyed quite a mild summer here in the Bay Area, especially in comparison to the rest of the country; but on those rare warm days we did need to find a way to cool down.  And these two little chums were dressed for it.

    By the way, I absolutely adore the body language that was captured in this pic – “Hey! No tickling!!”  (thanks Traci).

    And this one – “Give me back that hand!”

    He was practically giddy when he found her hand again!

    Then, as soon as “WATER” is mentioned, he forgets all about silly hand games and leaps of the table in pure excitement.

    He may grow up to be a swimsuit model or act in shower gel commercials – we try not to limit the possibilities.

    Showing off his muscular physique!  Even though I’ve never seen it, I’m pretty sure Kyle must strike this pose all the time while I’m gone because Kade really gets a kick out of “showing his muscles”.

    Sometimes going out to water the garden would turn into a bigger process than originally planned.

    With all that fun in the sun, naps sure were long on those afternoons.  :)

  • August21st

    It was time to make a decision about our couch.

    On the positive side:

    • It was comfortable, very comfortable
    • It was the right size for our room
    • I liked the shape and style of it, and so did Kyle (he’s surprisingly opinionated about furniture sometimes)
    • We already owned it (meaning I didn’t need to fork over $1000 to relax while watching TV)
    • It was NOT the couch pictured above

    On the negative side:

    Back to the positive side – it is covered in memories!  I mean look at those pictures!  We’d bought the couch used from some friends almost 7 years ago.  We’d moved it over 6000 miles, taken it apart and put it back together 5 times.  I just couldn’t kick it to the curb!  I had looked at slip covers, but none seemed able to fit our removable pillows without looking like a sheet had been thrown over it.  I found a book about making custom slip covers – basically it’s suggestion was to reupholster the couch, but at the very end, not attach it to the actual frame.  This apparently deemed it as a slip cover and was supposed to make the project less intimidating.  It worked – I started shopping for fabric.

    I found some great fabric at Discount Fabric Store in San Francisco – only $6/yard, as long as I bought the whole roll.  So I ended up washing and ironing 20 yards of HEAVY fabric.  It was almost the exact same as the current fabric, just a shade lighter (and with no sun fading or stains).

    So I started…

    I made one pillow case and then restuffed it with the old stuffing.  It was lumpy and still saggy.  We found out that if I shredded and fluffed the old stuffing, it brought it back to life and I could avoid having to buy more stuffings.

    Each cushion held about 2 trash bags of stuffing – I don’t even want to tell you how many hours were spent shredding!

    Then I made the remainder of the cushion covers and filled them with the old stuffing.  I could finally toss those stained covers!

    With the original cover still on the couch, I sewed my new cover upside down, piece by piece.  Then I trimmed off the old welting, so it wouldn’t create bumps and lumps underneath my new one.  I turned mine around, ironed it and pulled it down over the couch.  That was it!  It was complete.


    A new couch, covered in just memories, no stains!  And all for less than $200 (for fabric, welting, thread and zippers)

    I’ll try to get pics posted of the new living room arrangement soon.  I finally got to move my other reupholstered chairs into the lime light, not to mention make some room for a rocker that needed moved out of Kade’s room.

  • August17th

    OK, so I feel like I owe you an explanation.  We have not died or fallen off the planet.  Things just seem to keep coming up.  (These are not excuses, possibly blog topics as soon as I get around to it, but not excuses.) :)

    After Kade’s birthday party, we went to CO for a great time with grandparents.  Then after we got home, we had friends visit from Atlanta.  I came up with the crazy notion that reupholstering our living room couch would be a good idea, which of course led to rearranging the entire living room. The girls threw me a “baby sprinkle” and we all went to the Renegade Craft Fair in San Francisco.  Brice, Kyle’s brother, came to visit for a few days.   Kyle has been working all along on the activity table for Kade and it’s now all together (I can’t wait to show it!!!  I absolutely LOVE it!) But we still need to stain it and paint the inside which means I’ve been researching ideas on how to do that.  We also came up with an idea to use the table for a few felt board games – so I have been cutting out felt pieces for what seems like weeks.  The garden is doing great – mainly the zucchini.  I haven’t been keeping track, but I think I’ve made somewhere around 14 loaves of zucchini bread and our freezer is stocked with zucchini!  My sister, Megan, sent me the most ADORABLE doll patterns for my birthday, so I’ve also been trying to sew a couple dolls in my spare time.  A girl doll for Fritz, of course, and a little boy doll for Kade so that when Fritz comes and mom seems to always be taking care of Baby Sister, Kade will have a baby to take care of too.  (He really likes doing what I’m doing).

    Meanwhile, Kade has apparently learned the entire English language.  He has gone from saying about 50-60 words to talking about everything he sees, everything he remembers, and what he wants to do that day.  It’s super cute to here these complex sentences come out of a tiny little mouth!  He’s also decided that “Duck T-T” (DuckTales) is a great past time, along with Buzz Woody (Toy Story).  He asks for them every day by saying “Duck T-T, OK!”, as if I’ve offered and he’s agreeing.  He’s also learning his ABCs, but instead calls them “BBCEs).  Potty training is going GREAT and I have high hopes that we are on track to be in really good shape when Fritz comes.  When you ask Kade where his baby sister is, he points at my tummy – SO precious!  Kyle and I are trying to figure out what to do about Kade’s new bed as he’ll obviously need to get a bigger one so Fritz can have the crib.  We’d like a white Captain’s style single bed, but we’re trying to decide if we buy a new one, make our own, or buy some crap-tastic one off Craigslist and modify it to be exactly what we want.

    As far as little Fritz, the pregnancy is going great.  She is really kicking up a storm now and is old enough to get the hiccups.  (I know she’s got them when I feel really rhythmic soft “kicks”).  I’m still feeling pretty good, although for a while there I was SUPER exhausted.  The doctor said that I was apparently very low on iron and so now that I’m taking an iron supplement, I’m feeling much better and have more energy.  We think we have a first name picked out, but still working on the middle name.  We’re keeping both a secret as we’ve got to have something be a surprise or no one will bother to take our phone call when she’s born.  :)   We’re in the final leg though, officially the 3rd trimester.  A week or so ago, one of Kyle’s coworkers who has 2 little girls, was getting rid of her baby girl clothes and gave us A TON!  That really got me in the mood for baby girl – all those ruffles and pink and lace!  I can hardly wait!

    I’m sorry I haven’t been updating this as regularly.  I promise to do better…scratch that, I promise to TRY to do better.  It seems that I can’t really predict my capabilities as well as I used to before pregnancy.  :)   Thanks for understanding!

  • July14th

    When a little boy has this much fun at the park, you’d think I could figure out a way to make this a daily activity!

    So close…

    And yet so far…

    May as well turn it into one of his infamous death scenes!

    Practicing counting.

    This may be one of my favorite photos of all time!

    Although there is certainly nothing wrong with this one.